How Erectile Dysfunction (ED) May Be Affecting You, Even Outside Of The Bedroom
Posted on: 22 February 2020 by Felix Black
Erectile dysfunction started when i was younger. I was in college and like most young men at the time i would drink and party most days of the week. I would try and get in with the ladies and get pretty drunk and try and get with a woman. Well i found out quickly that alcohol and penis arousal do not go hand in hand.
It all started when i am younger. I was in college and like most young men at the time i would drink and party most days of the week. I would try and get in with the ladies and get pretty drunk and try and get with a woman.
Well i found out quickly that alcohol and penis arousal do not go hand in hand. So, I started to not drink as much so i could have sex without me trying to explain to every woman that it was the alcohol to blame. Well, I found out that i could only get barely aroused even stone cold sober. I thought well maybe this is just how sex is and that i have to just have sex with a semi erect penis. Well when i finally found my wife and we had sex enough times and i still had this problem. She suggested maybe its a medical condition.
I just went on for like and didnt worry about it because i was too embarrassed to go see a doctor.
When a doctor in Australia would ask during my physicals, I would just say everything is fine in that department. However, around the age of 45 my wife decided that her and i were not working out and we got a divorce. This was very hard on me emotionally and physically. I got very depressed and just didnt feel like myself.
About 2 years after struggling with depression, i decided to start dating to get my mind off of my ex wife and start to live again. After 3 or 4 dates with the same woman, we decided to have sex and it was worse than ever. I couldn't even get my penis hard no matter how much she tried. I didnt even drink and i still had this problem. I felt so bad and she was very upset and felt like i didnt find her sexually attractive.
I decided enough is enough and i went to the doctor.
They said i had Erectile Dysfunction and i need to get on Cialis medication to help with this. The doctor said i probably have had this for quite sometime and i should have come into see the doctor sooner. After the first dosage, it was like I was awake for the first time. I was so happy that i finally could get my penis hard and if medication could help with this then i was very happy. I called the same lady and asked for a redo date and she actually said yes.
I explained that i have a medical condition that isnt serious but i got it taken care of and we should be good to go now. Well let me tell you that was the best sex i have ever had. It was like i was a virgin having sex for the first time. I am so glad i went and got help and glad that i now can live my life to the fullest.
Erectile dysfunction has been a problem in my life off and on since the age of 14. I was a very isolated and introverted child who didn't know the first thing about girls or how to get their attention. Because of that, I opted to sexual images and videos at a very early age. I truly didn't realize the negative effect that it was having on my brain into later on in life. I would be at another woman's place and, although I could get aroused, it was very temporary and the satisfaction was minimal. Sometimes, I would literally leave the woman I was with so that I could be by myself and watch more sexual imagery taking place. The dysfunction was through the roof at this point in my life. I assumed that I just wasn't all that attracted to the women that I interacted with. But, when I would stay away from these sexually provocative videos for a set period of time, I would find that my arousal for even the average woman was mind blowing. Luckily, once I figured that out, my dysfunction is beginning to dwindle and my confidence is slowly getting restored to what it was once upon a time before the erectile dysfunction.